snickr:
There’s no need to be earnest, just to prevent the Internet from becoming “boring”. Twitter is interactive and generally stays at an intimacy level that threatens no one. Comedians use it to post new material, people post links of interest, others use it to chat. A steady stream of new material, with no discomfort or untoward disclosure, chit chat to pass the time. Win-win, no?
I do agree that not everything needs to be shared. Some things shouldn’t but what is a fluid wobbly line that changes between person and person as well as age. The boundaries are the problem just as well as finding a good balance — caring too much is a just as big a problem as caring too little. We don’t have to change the whole Internet with out dreams, just a small piece of it. Because I do think that while giving up dreams and go with the flow might be a good thing healthwise, I don’t want to do that. There are these lines of dialogue in Komarr by Lois McMaster Bujlod that really resonates with me:
— Some people grow into their dreams.
— That depends on whether your dreams are reasonable.
— No, it doesn’t. It depends on how hard you grow.
And earnest is something that Internet could use more of. Too much is not true, we doubt almost everything, there are people out there doing hoaxes in order to get into the news, there’s 4chan generating far too much notice, people who can’t handle being anonymous without degrading into a waste of human genome. I want a small sphere where people mean things again, be it positive or negative.
I don’t want to use words such as true and false because I think those exists side by side depending on the point of view we have when we look at facts. What I’m trying to say about being earnest is that not everything has to be but something must be. It might be in the core or in the peripheral but if everything is chit chat and not a degree of investment then it’s just fucking noise. Not good noise like Spacemen 3, no no no, it’s radio static. Played loud.
I’m all for not being serious. I have a big problem with being able to stay serious for longer than a few brief moments. I just believe the personal web should be more accepted place and used as a side-project, it doesn’t have to be all or nothing. Keeping things in and just floating around is not a solution, that if anything almost killed me.
(And now I’m thinking I misinterpreted what you meant.)